Time Frame | Preparing a Shibari Session

When planning a Shibari session, it's important to consider the time frame. How long will your session be? An hour, a couple of hours, all night? Whatever your time frame, be sure you are completely free from any obligation during that time. Even a phone call can spoil the mood and break the connection between you and your partner. This is supposed to be you and your partner's time. It is part of the intimacy of the session, where there is absolutely nothing else going on other than what is happening in that room. Enjoy this space that you have given yourself. Live that moment fully. There is nothing more important going on.

When  considering the time frame, you want to allow enough time for both the tying and untying process, as well as for the actual session itself. Depending on the complexity of the ties and the experience level of the participants, this can take anywhere from a few minutes to several hours.

It's also important to consider the physical and emotional endurance of both partners. Shibari can be physically demanding, especially for the person being tied, who may be in one position for an extended period of time. It's important to take breaks as needed and communicate openly with your partner throughout the session.

Another factor to consider when thinking about the time frame is the level of preparation required before the session. This may include setting up the space, selecting music, gathering equipment and supplies, and mentally preparing yourself for the session. Make sure to allocate enough time for these tasks so that you're not rushed or stressed during the session itself.

Finally, consider the aftercare needed after the session. Aftercare can include physical care such as hydration and rest, as well as emotional care such as cuddling and reassurance. Allow enough time for aftercare to ensure that both partners feel cared for and supported after the session.

In summary, when planning a Shibari session, consider the time frame for tying, untying, the actual session, and aftercare. Take into account physical and emotional endurance, level of preparation, and the need for breaks and open communication throughout the session. With proper planning, you can create a safe and fulfilling Shibari experience for both partners.