The Room | Preparing a Shibari Session

When planning a Shibari session, it's important to remember that there is more to it than just planning your knot and ties. Taking your environment into account is key for a successful Shibari session.

Before we begin the lesson, just a friendly reminder that even though Shibari can be fun, there is always risk. You're going to want to have some shears close by in case of emergency. Your partner's safety must be your number one concern.

In these lessons, we'll go over six basic areas for you to think about and plan before you begin tying. The first one is the room.

When choosing the room, you need to think about the objective of your session. Is it an intimate session? Is it a performance? Is it a photoshoot? How many people will be involved?

If it's going to be a performance, think about where the person tying and the person being tied will be, and where the audience is going to sit. If it's a photoshoot, think about the space where you will mount your lights and camera. If the objective of your session is more intimate, you will want to think about the bed.

Do you have bedposts that can work as anchors for your ties? Do you need mounts of any kind? You're going to want a queen or king-sized bed so everyone involved in the session can fit comfortably, but that's just my recommendation. Any sized bed will work.

When thinking about the room, one of the first things that must come to mind is privacy. Make sure that you can lock the door and that you will not be disturbed during your session. There is nothing more awkward than having a random walk in while you are tying or being tied. The room is supposed to be a safe environment where you feel comfortable and where you will be sharing a very intimate experience with your partner.

Consider the lighting in the room as well. Do you want it dimly lit or brightly lit? Think about the atmosphere you want to create for the session. Also, consider the temperature of the room. It's important to keep the room at a comfortable temperature since the person being tied will likely be partially or fully undressed.

Lastly, consider the floor space of the room. Shibari involves movement and sometimes the person being tied may need to be on the floor for certain ties. Make sure there is enough space for both the person tying and the person being tied to move around comfortably.

Remember, the room you choose sets the tone for your session. Take your time and choose a space where you feel comfortable and can create a safe and enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.