Sound | Preparing a Shibari Session

Sound is a frequently overlooked but crucial aspect of Shibari. The soundscape of a session can greatly influence the overall experience for both the person being tied and the person doing the tying.

One important consideration is the music. Choose music that complements the mood and energy of the session. The type of music can vary from steady, slow beats to upbeat and energizing rhythms, or even meditative and spiritual sounds. The crucial point is that it should be something that you and your partner both enjoy, which enhances the overall experience.

Another aspect to consider is communication. Although non-verbal communication is essential in Shibari, it's also necessary to establish clear verbal communication with your partner. Agree on a safeword or safe signal before the session and ensure both parties understand its meaning. Use verbal cues to check in with your partner during the session to ensure their comfort and enjoyment.

Breathing is another critical element to consider. Deep, intentional breathing can become a meditative and intimate experience during a Shibari session. Encourage your partner to breathe deeply throughout the session and listen to their breath as you tie and untie them. You can even experiment with different breathing exercises or incorporate some light meditation into the session.

Consider the sounds of the rope itself. The sound of the rope moving across the skin can be a sensual and stimulating experience. Listen to the sounds the rope makes as you tie and untie your partner, and use that feedback to adjust your technique and enhance the overall experience.

Finally, during aftercare, verbal affirmations and expressions of gratitude can also be powerful ways to use sound to provide emotional support and strengthen the connection between partners.

Remember that the auditory aspects of a Shibari session can have a significant impact on the overall experience. Take the time to carefully consider the soundscape of your session and use it to enhance the connection and intimacy between you and your partner. Don't forget to silence any audible distractions, like cell phones or roommates, to ensure an uninterrupted experience.