It is not uncommon to be kinky and to experience your sexuality in a way outside the "normal" parameters established by society. If anything, it opens up communication with your partner and creates a level of intimacy and trust that may be lacking in a vanilla sexual relationship.

Rope-bondage has been gaining momentum and as any kink, it requires consent from all the people involved.

Talk about your interest with your partner, watch videos and pictures and be open about their response. Ease into the topic and start small, shibari can be a little bit overwhelming to those that have not heard about it. Be clear with your partner that opening up with them about your sexual desires reflects a deep sense of trust. There is nothing to hide and your connection may become closer.